Off on our big adventure!

This was the third time Grammy and I brought you to Disney World, but it may as well have been your first because you were only three years old last time we went in 2007.  You really didn’t remember what it was like to fly… and had vague to zero recollections of the whole experience.

You were smiling, laughing and filled with energy when we all met at Manchester airport on Saturday March 10.  In fact you said…

“I’m so excited I’m going to pee myself!”

Here’s a photo of you, Emma and Camden by the big wooden moose at the airport:

 

On the flight down you said some funny things:

After the pilot gave us an update you said:

“We’re only in New York City.”

 

When we hit some turbulence you said (rather loudly):

“Wheeee!  May Day! May Day! We’re going down!”

 

That’s probably not the best thing to say on a crowded flight during rough air… ha! But out of the mouths of innocents often come some amazing – and hilarious – things!

You had a blast sitting next to Camden on the way down, staying busy with all kinds of projects, in particular video gaming!

 

quiet moments and real conversations

“I’m excited about going on the airplane because it’s been a long time and I don’t remember what it was like.”

 

“I like it when you stay at our house.”

 

“I’m anxious to go to Disney World.”

 

“How long does it take to get there?” (Me: three hours) “Emma, it’s three hours.”

 

“My score on Scrabble was 365. That’s the same as the number of days I go to school.” (Me: you mean days in the year?”)  “Yes, days in the year.”

 

(Me: which part are you at in the Harry Potter book? Has he gone through the wall yet?”)  “I’m not there yet, but I’ve seen that on the movie.”

 

Your Mom and Dad went out to eat the other night and we hung out at your house.

After your brother and sisters were in bed, we let you stay up later, huddling together on your sofa.  Grammy and I agreed you probably were thinking we had no clue what time it was.  You never let on, but you were probably thinking something like… “They obviously have no idea when I’m supposed to go to bed… they are so much easier to fool than my Mom and Dad.  This is so cool.”

Or something like that.

I got my iPad and we played Scrabble which you love… you’ve come a long way since January when we first started.

Tonight you beat me fair and square 365 to 280.  Yikes, I’ve created a monster.  At the end when there are only a few letters left, we stuck the letter U next to every possible existing word, hoping to get lucky.  We’d say the word out loud and laugh at the ridiculous words and sounds we had created.

You leaned against me the whole time we played… it made me feel good having you close.   As you get closer to your ninth birthday, it gets harder and harder to steal a kiss or hug… the moments are rare.  So tonight was a special night.  You’re my best buddy and we’ve recorded a lot of miles together.

On one hand it’s hard seeing you grow up so fast… makes me sad to be honest.  that means I’m getting older too.

But on the other hand, it’s cool being able to have real conversations together and do things we’ve never been able to do before.  With so much commotion always happening, the quiet moments when I can hear you express your thoughts are very special.

Can’t wait for our trip to Disney, Orlando, Lego World and Universal Studios. I’m anxious to spend time with you… see your expressions… observe your reactions…and hear your comments.

We’ve taken you to Disney twice before, but this time you’ll remember it.

Only four days left! We’re gonna have a blast.

 

chest bumps & hockey beatings

We played another sweat-filled Sunday night Hockey Battle Extravaganza tonight – it was you and Camden vs. me and Tim.

I got over-heated (literally) as I usually do, and took off my jersey, playing in my white t-shirt.  You guys followed suit, but not having any t-shirts, you both went “skins.”

Tim and I were soundly defeated after a double overtime game… and the two of you bumped chests as you boasted, bragged and trash-talked.

Super Bowl Sunday

We went to your house for Super Bowl Sunday and had fun. There was all kinds of yummy food from cheeseburger dip to dijon chicken wings. You were really into the game... we hung out together on the sofa and you asked a lot of questions. It was so much fun having a conversation with you about sports.. you're growing up so fast but it's cool... The stinkin' Giants beat us again!

 

GOOOOOAAAAAALLLLLL!

This afternoon your played your first Winter soccer game, on a team with other Dover kids, playing in an indoor stadium in Hampton.

Last Fall you played soccer (as you have for many years), but your coach used you as a defenseman in every single game.  You did a great job, but she never gave you a chance to try offense, despite the fact that you’re one of the quickest and strongest kids on the team. You love soccer – it’s your favorite sport – and I love to watch you do your thing no matter what position you play.  But I have trouble understanding why an eight year old would be restricted to one position.

Play the field! Try every position! See what you can do!

So anyway, tonight – on your new team – your new coach put you on offense after playing you the first half on defense.  He’s a new coach, and he doesn’t know you yet, and he’s more open minded.

The other team was tough – you played them in Fall soccer.  They are relentless and ran the score up.  Finally Dover got off a solid kick, the shot hitting the right upper side of the goal and then taking a left turn inward.  You assisted on the shot.  Score!

Late in the game, down by five goals at least, you put your foot into the ball with assertiveness and it soared in a floating arc over the goalie’s head. You had scored your first goal!

playing your first indoor soccer game the day you scored your first goal you lined up with the goal straight on and let your leg fly into the ball. It lifted up high - like a field goal kicker's kick - and sailed well above their relentless goalie's head and arced in seeming slow motion into the goal.

Everyone congratulated you at the end of the game; we were so happy for you.  You were a little surprised, and very low key, I could tell, but you were glowing from the moment.  It was like you couldn’t believe it had happened.

Way to go Ben, way to go.  I’m proud of you!

christmas craziness and the big surprise

Christmas Day was lots of fun. You came to our house late morning and stayed the day.  After opening lots of presents and stockings, I announced we would be having a surprise scavenger hunt…. I gave you the instructions and you read them aloud.

The object of the game was to go into eight different rooms and find one white envelope in each.  Inside each envelope were letters… each one spelling a word. Put the words together in the proper sequence…. and an exciting message would emerge.

You were a critical player in the whole grand expedition… you were the only one who could read and spell!  Emma and Camden – in particular – joined the grand expedition. in earnest, with Ainsley and Molly doing their thing along the way.

After lots of running around and craziness, you all returned to the Great Room and figured out the puzzle.  Here’s what it spelled:

Although we’ve taken you to Disney World twice before, we haven’t been since 2007.  We’ll all be together – all 13 of us – staying at the Wilderness Lodge within the Magic Kindgdom.  We are going to have a blast – let the countdown begin!